i’m so touched.. yesterday when i reached home, my dear husband gave me a surprise with a red rose.. thank you sayang. we are not celebrating Valentine.. because for us everyday should be fill with love in a marriage..

romantic gifts, beautiful word or lovely cards are not exclusively for “hari Kekasih”.. we could give to our love ones the gift of our love anytime throughout the year to show our loves and thoughts even though there is no special occasions like anniversary, birthday etc.

The gifts need not necessarily have to be expensive or big but the thoughts that counts.. simple things like an e-cards or cute sms can create a smile on the person that we love.. cherish our relationship, and brings happiness to our life..

My husband once said to me, the most important things that matter to him is that i respect him.. i guess this is the most precious gift that a wife can give to the husband.. maybe most of u will ask, what do you mean by respect.. i think this link will give you the answer.. this is from the book  The Ideal Muslimah by Muhammad Ali al Hashimi

http://www.wefound.org/texts/Ideal_Muslims_files/herhusband.htm

Today, i’m pretty sure that many of the Muslim are celebrating Valentine’s day.. do they know muslims are not allowed to celebrate this event.. or do they know what is the story behind it.. valentine day has relations with the history, tradition and teachings of the Christians.. it is the day to remember the death of St. Valentine.. what worries us is the way they celebrate it, usually there will be parties, mixing between men and women and even worst, extramarital sex (zina)..nauzubillah..

For more information on the hukum of celebrating Valentine’s day, u can check this link

http://www.muftiselangor.gov.my/E-Book/Download/KoleksiAt-Taqwa/At-Taqwa9/At-Taqwa9(12-13).pdf

bagi liya pengalaman manis ada banyak sepanjang hampir 26 tahun diberi nikmat hidup oleh Allah ni.. tapi antara yang paling terkesan di hati adalah bila dikenalkan dengan usrah dan dakwah lebih kutang lima tahun dulu.. liya ada beberapa kawan kat matriks yang join usrah, tapi tak pernah terfikir yang liya pun akan join usrah.. detik permulaan mengenal tarbiyah adalah bila liya dikenalkan oleh ustazah liya masa kat darul quran dgn seorang lelaki yang kini alhamdulillah dah jadi suami liya ..semua bermula masa kat matriks lagi.. masa tu usrah dgn ustazah hamidah mat.. terima kasih ustazah, sekarang ustazah kat durham..

pastu bila masuk kuantan, masa first year tak berapa ramai akhawat, tapi by each year jumlah meningkat dan alhamdulillah, rasa sgt seronok dapat berada dalam tarbiyah dan dakwah ni.. ukhuwah yang dirasakan memang susah nak cari.. apa yang merisaukan, bila dah grad nanti dan telah disibukkan dengan kerja, hospital dan oncall serta family, adakah liya masih mampu untuk terus berada di jalan ini..

banyak akhawat dan ikhwah yang aktif masa time balajar tapi bila dah grad, terus pudar sinarnya.. jadi liya harap diri ini dan rakan2 seperjuangan di uia, terus berusaha untuk tsabat di jalan dakwah..insya Allah 

Sweet memories bersama akhawat..

jaulah melaka